Swingers come from all races, age groups, sizes, religions, political parties, and income brackets. There is no one group that swings. In general, the average age of swingers is in the late 30’s however the age bracket is getting younger and younger as more young couples are exploring sex with multiple partners. At one time swinging was something that was most often engaged in by married or strongly committed couples, we are seeing a surge of the activity among much younger couples at an earlier point in their relationship. For many, swinging has become a fad, something to try without much thought given. This is troublesome in that such couples who have not established their relationship are responsible for much of the drama that is encountered within life and the lifestyle.
When considering swinging for the first time, many assume that only attractive people swing. The truth is that swingers are a true cross-section of humanity and you will find all types of people within the lifestyle. Whatever it is that you are attracted to, you will find others that fit that characteristic, and whatever it is that you are not attracted to; there will be plenty of those as well. If you feel that you
are not attractive enough to swing, then take some time to browse the ads on one of the many swinger sites. You will find that doing so gives you a much better idea of the variety of those who swing.
This post is an excerpt from The Swinger Manual
Now that you’ve read this, where do you fit in? How would you describe yourself as a couple or a person?