In Self Esteem and Attraction, I mentioned how your attraction level is directly related to your self-esteem level. It is quite common for you to attach your self-esteem level to your perceived appearance. And, rarely will you perceive yourself to be even remotely as attractive as others perceive you to be. You spend 100% of […]
Feelings of Jealousy and Swinging The key to dealing with jealousy is being secure in who you are and in your relationship. In trusting yourself and your partner and in knowing that at any time you can walk away from this lifestyle and all that it entails. No one is 100% secure in whom they […]
If you’ve not heard my Interview with Jared and Kara of Super Secret Swingers now is a good time to check it out. We talk a little bit about how the Swinger Manual came to be, as well as about what you can expect from The Swinger Manual, and swinging, in general. Listen now. Enjoy!
Self-Esteem and Attraction Swinging may help improve your self-esteem, if you allow it to. However, if you have low self-esteem and let it show, this will affect how others interact with you. Everyone likes a person who likes him/herself. Remember that beauty truly is in the “eye of the beholder”. But for others to find […]
So your spouse doesn’t want to have sex with you… what do you do? Well you turn to swinging of course. After all, swingers will have sex with anyone right? Wrong! If your own spouse won’t have sex with you, what makes you think that we want to? And worse yet, if you are lying […]